Let me say this first: Breastfeeding and adult nursing relationships are not for everyone. Some people may even be repulsed by the idea. But if you’re even slightly interested in trying it out with your man, you should make sure you follow these 5 breastfeeding tips.
1. Make it a special occasion: Breastfeeding your husband or boyfriend is an incredibly intimate and private activity. But if she does it every night with her man, she’ll quickly lose her appeal to both of them. Instead of nursing your man regularly, try to space him out and only do it once or twice a week to make it a special occasion.
2. Make sure both are clean – I can’t believe I’m saying this! But even in 2012, some people aren’t serious about their hygiene and sexual health. Before you start nursing your man, make sure that you are both clean and that you are both STD free.
3. Try talking dirty: If you really want to heighten the sensations you’re giving your man while nursing, why not try talking dirty at the same time? You don’t have to say anything that is totally outrageous. The easiest way to talk dirty to your man while nursing him is to simply describe how he feels.
You could say things like, “That feels really good,” or “I love the way you suck on my nipples,” or “Your sucking on my breasts really turns me on right now.” That’s all about it. As you get more comfortable, you can begin to expand on what you are going to say.
4. It’s the perfect time for a handjob: If your man is lying on your lap sucking on your breasts, then you are in a perfect position to start giving him a handjob at the same time. Just like talking dirty to him, you don’t need to do anything fancy. Just grab his shaft with a gentle grip and start stroking slowly. Ideally, you want him to ejaculate after he has finished sucking on his breasts.
5. Make sure he reciprocates. While breastfeeding your man is often a mutually erotic sexual act, it may be something your man enjoys much more than you do. If this is the case, then make sure he reciprocates and does something nice for you.
So if you find yourself sitting there waiting for him to finish, maybe you’ll get him to eat you afterwards. Or maybe you have ‘that position’ that you really enjoy. Either way, make sure the sex is for both of you to enjoy, not just for him.
