So your ex went ahead and got a new girl. What is your job? Cry over your lost hopes and care for your aching heart? Well, that’s not gonna get your ex back. So get up and come up with a cunning plan to make your fairy tale come true. This is what you need to do to get your ex back from another girl.
He looks sexier than his current girlfriend.
You must have seen him with his current girlfriend. Now you need to work on your appearance and start looking better and sexier than her. When you look great, your ex will immediately start thinking that maybe she didn’t get a good deal after all.
reconnect with him
First you need to reconnect with him. Looks like you’ve moved on. Talk to him and tell him that you would like to put the past behind you and at least be comfortable with each other. This will make your ex feel comfortable with you.
make a friend
Soon you will begin to bond with your ex. Don’t throw yourself at him, but offer to hang out with a group once in a while. This will help the two of you grow closer and won’t make him or his girlfriend uncomfortable with you.
as his current girlfriend
Get introduced to his current girlfriend and at least pretend he likes her. Don’t make any sarcastic comments about her. She makes her feel comfortable with you by putting in a good word for your ex and telling her that you fully support her relationship. Gain her trust to enter her inner circle.
Speak well of her with him.
You should also make sure to compliment his girlfriend. They should never feel that you are jealous or insecure. Tell him that he is lucky to have a girl like his current girlfriend in his life. Show him that you are the good person who really likes his current girlfriend.
Create some friction
Now you can create a bit of friction between the two. Take the buddy act a little more seriously and show her girlfriend how much better you know him than her. She will eventually feel threatened and ask you to choose between the two of you. And since she will be the one who asks him to choose, she will automatically become the villain. Men hate when women force them to choose!
Being a little unavailable
Now, through all of this, you seem to just go ahead and date casually. Never really be available until they break up and you are the support they need. He will return as your boyfriend shortly after that.
