Your ex-girlfriend was obviously very unhappy in the relationship, or she wouldn’t have left you. Also, it is very likely that he still has deep feelings for you, because love cannot just be disconnected. Your ex didn’t just decide that they didn’t want to love you anymore and then left. You need to find out what their reasons were, fix the problems, and then try to get your ex back.
Think back to the past and try to remember what you complained about on a regular basis. It doesn’t matter if the problems were big or small, something needs to be done about them. If the little problems were repeated, that would have been enough to push your ex away from you.
Ignoring her complaints about what he was doing that was making her unhappy gave her the impression that she didn’t care much about her feelings. However, her feelings are important, and since you didn’t respect them, you made her leave you. Fix all the mistakes that were bugging you and you have a good chance at getting your ex girlfriend back.
In the meantime, however, don’t even try to make contact with her. She is still too mad at you and will probably ignore your calls and messages anyway. Leave her completely alone to get over her anger. Once your emotions have cooled down, it will be much more accessible.
Focus all of your time and energy on figuring out what mistakes you made and then do your best and make the effort to correct them. If your girlfriend often complained that you were messy with yourself, then do something about it. Buy yourself some new clothes and get ready; Looking good will also give you a good chance of getting your ex back.
If some of the mistakes you have made cannot be physically corrected, resolve never to make them again. If they make you unhappy, then it’s worth quitting. She will only be willing to have a relationship with you if she is happy.
So to get your ex girlfriend back, you have to fix the problems you’ve caused, look good, and make her happiness your top priority. If your girlfriend is happy, you will be happy and your relationship will prosper.
