An Act of God or Passion
I am going to write some thoughts that I want to overcome. I am going to touch on the moral and emotional aspects of deflowering a virgin. Is it wrong, especially if you have no plans to marry her and would like to include this act as a conquest? The answer may be under two heads. Either you believe in religious dogma and feel it is wrong or you are a liberated man and see it as a natural act of fulfillment.
All girls are virgins at some point and that is the essence of the argument. Someone will take her virginity from her, not necessarily the man who will marry her. It can be an act of seduction from an older man or a fit of passion with a boyfriend. Even in India, many girls lose their virginity before marriage. As for me in many visits abroad, I never met a single virgin. In America, very few girls will wait until marriage to be deflowered.
Having accepted this argument, I see no reason if there is any possibility of an older man “breaking” a virgin. First of all, he will add years to his life and make him feel younger. As Vatsyayana has said, sex with a younger woman is the elixir of youth. I’m sure Vatsyayana is right and there is now research in Denmark and the US confirming that younger women add years to a man’s health and longevity. Older men and younger girls are a sure recipe for good health and longevity.
Let the older men taste it. Breaking a virgin’s hymen is thus part of life and a step towards great satisfaction. How one does it is an individual trait. There has to be finesse and tact, and overall it has to be a polished effort: something the girl will remember. Many are not going to move on, but I did deflower three virgins and for me those are my most precious moments. I wonder how many readers will agree with me. Yes, these three were the ones who allowed themselves to be seduced. How do I watch it? One has to justify the act in his mind and I feel no remorse, for after all Lord Krishna said, “Not a leaf moves without my will.”
Lastly, there must be the inherent belief that you intend to make it memorable for the virgin, something that she will remember in the future.
