Your relationship is in a tailspin, you know you did something terribly wrong, and you don’t know how to handle the situation so it doesn’t get out of hand. You can’t handle the guy who hates you, so read on to get a handle on things.
identify the problem
You have to find out what is the reason why he turns his love into hate. There has to be some solid reason or there were little issues along the way that led to this outburst. In all honesty, find out what the problem is first, so that you can then take the next step to find solutions.
work on improvement
If you can figure out why you are in this situation, then work to make changes and improve. If it’s your constant criticism that made him hate you or your distrust, try to change to be a positive and confident person.
go and apologize
Make the move to go apologize for your mistakes, let him see how sorry you are if your actions have caused him distress. An honest apology is sure to melt him away.
be nice to him
Whenever you meet, be courteous and kind to him. Let your actions speak for themselves, do small and sweet things for him so that he starts looking at you in a positive light. Ask him if you can help him with his homework or something to show him that you want to make amends.
Try to rekindle the friendship.
Take the initiative to restart the friendship you once had. You must be patient and accept that it can be a slow process to rebuild the lost connection. Try to get him to talk, be content with a short conversation at first if he hesitates.
be resilient
He may ignore your presence and avoid you, but you must show him that you are strong and optimistic and that you are confident that things will work out. Your strong and optimistic character may impress him and you may not be annoyed by his constant ignoring you. This will make him reflect on his behavior and he may become attached to you at some point.
ask him directly
If nothing works, it is best to ask him directly if the reason for the hatred is so strong that it cannot be repaired. Maybe honest and open communication is what is needed to resolve the issue, sometimes a lack of communication can be the reason why issues go unresolved. Once you’ve spoken your mind and cleared the air, you can look forward to a better equation with your guy.
