About a third of the homicides of women in the United States are committed by their male partners. The numbers are staggering, and there are thousands of programs and organizations working tirelessly to provide safety options to victims of domestic abuse. There are self-defense classes, literacy programs, and job training that can be very helpful for a woman trying to escape a harmful relationship.
The reality is, no one seems to come up with a glowing warning sign to alert other innocent people to the fact that they are unstable maniacs with a short fuse. No one thinks that they will become a victim of domestic violence. We would all like to believe that everyone is as loving and patient as we are. We want to believe that everyone deserves love and we are here to give it to them. Sometimes we come across that person who reminds us that none of the above statements is true.
While there may not be a foolproof method to prevent domestic violence, there are ways to arm yourself with guns to turn the odds in your favor. The most important factor will always be safety. A safety plan is essential even if you suspect that your partner has the potential to be an abuser or has shown a tendency to violence. If you are not sure how to put together a safety plan to stay safe, contact a local domestic violence organization for help. Of course, in an emergency, dial 911.
Before you find yourself in a life-threatening situation, it would be wise to understand the tremendous importance of gaining financial independence. Preparing for financial independence is essential even if you plan to be a full-time mother or homemaker. When things are going well, women tend not to think too much about independence because they tend to be quite busy taking care of others. Women should always seek ongoing educational opportunities whenever possible to keep their skills in shape. Keeping up with the latest job trends and keeping an up-to-date resume will also set you up for an unexpected resurgence in the corporate world.
If things get worse at home, many women stay because they cannot afford to live alone. They are unqualified and inexperienced, so their prospects are slim or nil. Instead of becoming a victim of circumstance, empower yourself to build your own financial wealth.
For those who have never worked outside the home, it can be especially scary. The good news is that there are several courses designed specifically for new workers entering the workplace for the first time. They typically contain valuable information on proper interview techniques, proper clothing, resume help, and much more. Services generally vary by course or company, but tend to be exactly what you need to get started on the path to financial independence. These types of services are helpful for anyone looking for employment, but they have proven to be life changing for survivors of domestic abuse.
