It’s hard to break up with the girl you love, but it’s even harder to try to get your girl back. How can you show him that you’re ready to get back together? How can you show him that he is worth coming back to?
don’t be complacent
There are times when you have become so used to having someone around that you become complacent. You don’t think you have to work hard or put in the effort to look good for your partner. It’s quite the opposite actually.
If you make the effort to look good for her, then it’s like knowing that you value her opinion over what she thinks of you. Not to mention that she makes her feel good because she spent time looking great for you too. The way you dress and keep up appearances for her shows her that you still care, because who would take the time to look good for someone who doesn’t care?
Communication
Communication is important in relationships, but it is not limited to talking. You need to listen to her too, be sympathetic and understanding. Don’t be indifferent if he shares serious things with you because he would really like to know what you think. She also hopes that she can get some support and comfort from you.
Another good communication tip is to remind him of the fun things you used to do together. Make him remember what it’s like to be with you, make him remember who you are. Don’t remind him of the arguments you’ve had. She will also be impressed because you remembered all those details in your relationship.
positive outlook
Sometimes your attitude and outlook on life count when it comes to trying to get back together with your ex. Think of those times when he has argued a lot, wasted time over who is right and who is wrong. Well, now you know better. Now you know that it doesn’t matter who is right or who is wrong, what matters is what you are going to do to make things right again.
It’s actually quite simple: if you want your girl back, then you need to have a more positive attitude. Don’t take all the blame and don’t put all the blame on her. Remember, disagreements are inevitable and if you want things to work, then you will have to work together.
