So you and your girlfriend broke up a couple of weeks ago and you haven’t really had much communication since. You still have feelings for her and would take her back, but it seems like every time you try to call her it only makes the situation worse.
Now her birthday is coming up and you really don’t know what to do. Should you call your ex girlfriend on her birthday? It seems like a no-win situation. If you call her too soon after the breakup, it could complicate the situation, but if you don’t, she might think that you forgot and that leaving you was a good idea in the first place.
If you really want to get your ex girlfriend back, you are probably right not to contact her on the phone. In this situation, time is very important. You need to give yourself some distance and also give him a chance to miss you.
However, you are also right to completely ignore his birthday. Instead of a phone call, send him a private message wishing him a happy birthday via text message, Facebook Or email. Somehow you can let her know that you haven’t completely forgotten about her. What you don’t want to do is force her to talk to you right away, so no phone calls!
After a break up, there is always a small window of opportunity for you to reunite with your ex and it must be done right. Pushing for contact is the biggest and most common mistake guys make when trying to get their ex girlfriend back. At the same time, you don’t want to wait too long and then find out that your ex-girlfriend has gone into a rebound relationship because she waited too long.
So when should you call your ex girlfriend? First, you need to give him time to miss you and wonder about you. It is during this time that you need to become more attractive to her. Letting her feel like you’re desperate and lost while trying to win her sympathy might get her to spend time with you, but it’s not the way to get her back as your girlfriend again.
The simple answer is that you shouldn’t call your ex girlfriend. Instead, you should let her call you. It sounds impossible, but it’s actually much easier than you think. The Ex Recovery System: Get Her Back Edition will show you exactly how to make it happen. By using some sneaky psychological tricks, you can make her realize that you’re doing fine without her and that leaving you was a mistake. It will take a little time and a lot of effort on her part, most of all she will have to play her cards right. The feelings of any woman for an ex boyfriend do not disappear in a puff of smoke, you have to be patient, smart and let him come back to you.
