Most women want to know how to do great manual work, but did you know that by giving a lingham massage you are not only giving her a lot of pleasure, you are also improving her inner health, revitalizing her entire body while giving her a spiritual experience?
It sounds like a very fancy way to wank, but lingham massage is no ordinary sexual practice. This sensual massage for couples is a tantric practice, derived from the Kama Sutra, an ancient Indian philosophy that involves sexual behavior, expansion of consent and awareness.
In Tantra, Lingham is the word for penis which is loosely translated as ‘wand of light’ and the reason this male tantric massage differs from regular hand work, or lower sensual massage, is that its purpose is actually to prolong the excitement before ejaculation. This is done through continuous stimulation of the Lingham, where the sexual energies are built up with massage and then progressively slowed down as you approach your sexual peak.
What is Lingham massage?
You may be wondering why you would want to put off ejaculation for as long as possible, but the benefit of Lingham massage is that with practice men can develop control techniques to extend their intercourse, which is great news for you. And they can also learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation, which can make them multi-orgasmic, which is great news for them!
And although many people have the mistaken belief that Tantra and Lingham massage is purely erotic, its meaning is in fact much deeper than that. Although male tantric massage definitely has a strong sexual element, its true purpose and remarkable benefit is that it actually heals and rejuvenates the body using sexual energy.
With so many nerve endings in the Linhgam corresponding to other parts of the body, it is believed that many common ailments can be cured with a good Linhgam massage.
So next time your man starts flashing his wand of light, don’t just give him a regular lower sensual massage, surprise him by giving him a Lingham massage. It will not only calm you down, the different sensations of highs and lows. of sexual pleasure will not only refresh you, but will also give your whole body a reboot, so to speak.
Nude Full Body Massage – Steps to a Lingham Massage
Lingham massage is about putting you into deep relaxation to flush out impurities in your system while promoting circulation. To achieve this, you must give him a full body nude massage for at least 15 to 20 minutes. Use cold organic oils like almond, sesame, or olive instead of essential oils and create a sense of calm by playing soft music and lighting candles.
Have him lie on his stomach and begin your male tantric head massage by moving along his body with different strokes of speed and pressure. Take time to focus on massaging your buttocks. Not many men are used to being touched here and with the dense muscle mass in this area, massaging them will relieve tension and send you into deeper relaxation in a good preparation for the Lingham massage.
When you’re satisfied you’ve done enough, ask her to turn around and stand next to you or kneel in front of your slightly bent open legs.
NUDE MALE MASSAGE
Begin to massage the inner thighs, pelvic bone, and perineum. When he starts to get aroused, encourage him to slow down his breathing by inhaling through his nose and slowly exhaling through his mouth.
Slowly drip oil along the lingham and into the scrotum. Gently massage your testicles in circular motions and give a sensual lower massage by massaging the linhgam around the head and shaft. With your fingers wrapped around the head, use different motions to massage from head to base and back again.
Remember that the goal of lingam massage is not orgasm.
Don’t worry if the Linhgam hardens and then softens during the massage, this is actually the most desirable result. Hardness and smoothness are at opposite ends of the pleasure spectrum, creating a succession of peaks and valleys of pleasure like riding a wonderful wave.
If you think you are going to ejaculate, wait and allow the lingham to soften again. You can re-massage your inner thighs or other parts of your body before turning your attention back to the lingham.
When he finally ejaculates, gently remove your hands and cover him to keep him warm. After such an intense experience, you will need to rest quietly for five to ten minutes.
The ultimate goal of linhgam massage is to heal while connecting with your lover and divinity. With practice and time, you will not only increase your man’s sexual pleasure, but also deepen your bond as lovers.
