Speed dating may be a fad and they just brought out a kind of speed dating where all you do is look each other in the eye. Which is really funny because I think it’s crazy and yet my biggest problem with normal speed dating is guys not making eye contact when trying to chat with me! So the first of my first speed dating tips is look at me! Anyway, since the more conventional form of speed dating where you can talk to me is pretty popular right now, here are some speed dating tips for you guys, from across the table.
Telling me that I’m beautiful and that you want to marry me doesn’t light my fire, folks. Yeah, I like being told I’m beautiful at the right time and I might want a proposal from someone one day, but speed dating is corny and I can’t help but wonder who else you told. It’s not even funny if that’s how it’s intended. You know that girls don’t want guys who are immature, unfunny, lacking in confidence, or desperate. Just be normal!
Here’s how to handle it. Even if we’re wearing silly badges, just introduce yourself, look at me and talk to me without beating the last girl please. If you tell me that I look good or that you like what I am wearing, or my hair or my shoes, it is more natural and believable than a silly proposal or that you are beautiful. Of course, it’s more likely to make me feel good too because it complements my style or taste.
We don’t have a lot of time and I understand that if you like me you may feel pressure to make a good impression quickly, but if you brag or talk with enthusiasm, you won’t. Show interest in me and ask sensible questions, you can tell me about yourself in a moment. Given the time constraints on knowing what I do at work, my hobbies and interests first might help you tell me something about yourself that interests me. I don’t need to know everything, if I like the way you look, dress and smell, if you seem normal, moderately intelligent and solvent, I’m almost certainly ready to know more. These aren’t just speed dating tips, they’re the golden rules!
Being cheeky is good, being rude will write you off, mate. I don’t have to agree with everything you say, share identical tastes in music, food or sports. Something in common is good, a little spark and a touch of chemistry and a suitable date is in the cards. Leave something to the imagination and let me smile, don’t leave me in any doubt if you’re interested I don’t want to put you on my list and then feel rejected. Follow these simple speed dating tips and you will get dates and ratings!
